According to the renown British psychologist, Marissa Peer, children take on roles to feel included in the “tribe” due to experienced traumas.  Unresolved and suppressed traumas lead to the assumed roles as a child and continue into adulthood: 

 1) sickly-chronic illness   2) over-achiever    3) rebel    4) caregiver

These limiting roles happen to about 90% of the population.   Healing and transmutation of limited false beliefs about self can lead to increase self-esteem and empowerment when ALLOWED by the subconscious mind is reprogrammed which responds only to repeated thoughts and what is focused upon, whether it’s good or bad, positive or negative.  You are right either way.  You have the power to meet your own needs NOW that were not met as a child.    Those childhood beliefs are not true anymore, they do not define you.   It’s a learning process to release. It’s not who you are anymore.  This is the Divine Truth!