The key to internal change is honoring your inner Higher Self, by acknowledging the unconditional love that is your birth right, graciously given to you by the Universe.   This takes time to develop into your awareness because often we are limited by acquired false beliefs and conditions.  We live our lives making mistakes which are actually lessons.  We can become wiser through experience but also by living life with a spiritual connection to the unseen energy of the celestial world, our inner wiser guidance.  We have unlimited power within to create good in whatever we want and do.  God, Source, the Universe, Jesus, Mother Mary, Buddha, Mohammed, and/or other celestial beings of unconditional love can be amazing co-creators and help you with your inner guidance if you so choose.  Surrounding yourself with like-minded people help you feel accepted and fulfilled.  You have free will by design.  Celestial beings, Angels, Archangels, Spiritual guides will never interfere in your life. Because the world is frozen with fear and distrust, you can live in this mindset of paralysis.  Or you may want  more freedom of your mind to live a fuller life experience.   If you ask the Higher Self, or the heavenly beings, they will help you if you ask and believe in their intervention on your behalf. It requires Trust and Faith.  A tall order for the human EGO.  You create your life reality.  This is the Truth. We all have free will. You can live in skepticism and dismissal of the MAGIC of life and continue living as you are.  You can also choose to live life in your enriched creation.