The little things:  with time the negative can and does fall way.  For example: my husband kept leaving the toothpaste lid off the tube, it made me nutty. I was tired of being annoyed at him, so I decided to focus on how my husband is so amazingly thoughtful, kind, and funny, loving and a great cook!  I thought about how grateful I am to have him in my life.  Now the toothpaste cap doesn’t matter anymore.  Guess what? The cap is always on the toothpaste tube after usage since I  expressed my preference. Because I’m focusing on his amazing qualities, my energy increased in positivity.  While appreciating your loved ones, friends or co-workers,  envision your dream and smile every day.  Continue to  explore ways to make your dream happen.  Become curious, let go of the fear!